Realistic Tips for Getting Through (and Actually Enjoying It)
Holiday travel with little ones can feel equal parts exciting and overwhelming. Between packing, planning, and keeping tiny humans fed, rested, and regulated, it’s easy to wonder if it’s all worth it.
The truth? It can be — with a little realism, flexibility, and the right expectations.
Here’s a calm, practical guide to navigating holiday travel with babies and toddlers, without aiming for perfection.
1. Lower the Bar (Really)
The biggest shift you can make before you even leave the house is mindset. Travel with kids isn’t about sticking to routines perfectly or arriving refreshed. It’s about getting there safely and keeping everyone reasonably happy.
• Meals might be later than usual
• Naps might happen in carriers or cars
• Screen time might increase
And that’s okay. Flexibility is your biggest travel win.
2. Pack for Comfort, Not Just the Destination
Think less “outfit changes” and more “comfort essentials”. A few familiar items can make an unfamiliar place feel safe:
• A comforter or soft toy from home
• A familiar pacifier or soothing item
• A night light or gentle sleep aid
• A favourite bib, bottle, or cup
These small comforts help babies and toddlers settle faster, especially at bedtime.

3. Create a Mini Routine Wherever You Are
Even on the move, consistency matters. Choose one or two non-negotiables and keep them simple:
• A familiar bedtime cue (bath, pyjamas, soft light)
• The same feeding or soothing sequence
• A calm wind-down activity before sleep
It doesn’t need to be elaborate — just familiar enough to signal it’s time to rest.
4. Plan for Transit Survival, Not Entertainment Perfection
Long drives, flights, or layovers are rarely magical, but they can be manageable.
A few go-to ideas:
• Snacks you know your child loves
• One or two new toys (novelty helps)
• A pacifier, teether, or comfort item
• A baby carrier or stroller for hands-free calm
And remember: crying doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means your child is adjusting.

5. Say Yes to Help (and Rest)
Holiday travel often means being around family. Let them help. Even 20 minutes to shower, nap, or reset can make a big difference.
If your baby’s routine is disrupted, give yourself permission to rest when you can. On-the-go parenting is tiring, and recovery matters too.
6. Choose Gear That Works Wherever You Go
Travel highlights what really works, and what doesn’t. Prioritise products that are:
• Lightweight and easy to pack
• Simple to clean
• Familiar to your child
• Useful across multiple moments (feeding, soothing, sleep)
When you’re travelling, less gear that works well is always better than more gear that doesn’t.
7. Remember: This Is a Season
Not every trip will feel calm or smooth, and that’s okay. These years are short, even when they feel long.
Travel during this phase is less about ticking off destinations and more about shared moments, memories, and learning how your family moves through the world together.
• Some days will be messy
• Some nights will be interrupted
But there will also be firsts — first beach naps, first road trips, first holiday traditions.
On-the-go parenting during the holidays isn’t about doing it perfectly. It’s about doing it gently. Pack thoughtfully, adjust expectations, and remember that your presence is the most important thing you bring along.
Wherever you’re headed this season, we’re cheering you on.