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The start of a new year often arrives with big expectations – new routines, better habits, and a sense that everything should suddenly feel organised. But when you’re parenting little ones, the idea of a “reset” can feel overwhelming rather than motivating. This year, we’re inviting a different approach: a gentle reset. One that honours where you are, keeps routines simple, and focuses on calm over perfection. Here’s how to ease into the new year with routines that support your family – not exhaust it. 1. Start With One Anchor Point Routines don’t need to be rigid or full. They just need one reliable moment to hold onto. Choose a single anchor point in your day – something that already exists – and build around it. This could be: A consistent morning wake-up window A calm evening wind-down ritual A shared mealtime Once one part of the day feels settled, the rest often follows more naturally. 2. Reset the Environment, Not Just the Schedule Sometimes it’s not the routine that needs changing – it’s the space around it. A few small resets can make daily rhythms feel easier: Clearing visual clutter in play or sleep spaces Creating a simple “bedtime basket” with pyjamas, books, and comfort items Adding soft lighting or calming textures in the evening These small shifts help signal transitions without needing words or timers. 3. Let Routines Flex With the Season January often comes with tired bodies, shorter days, and emotional hangovers from the festive rush. Expect routines to be softer than usual. Try something new that allow: Later bedtimes as children re-adjust Extra comfort or connection time Slower mornings when possible Flexibility doesn’t mean a lack of structure – it means listening. 4. Reset Expectations (Especially Your Own) A new year doesn’t require a new version of you. It’s okay if: Sleep isn’t perfect yet Mealtimes feel messy Your routine works most days, not all Progress in parenting is rarely linear. Consistency matters more than control. 5. Use Routine to Create Calm, Not Control The purpose of routine isn’t productivity – it’s predictability. Children thrive when they know what comes next. Simple cues like: The same song before bath time A familiar light turned on for bedtime A short phrase before naps These small signals can help children feel safe and grounded, even when the day has been busy. 6. Include Yourself in the Reset Parents often design routines for everyone else – and forget themselves. As you reset, ask: What part of the day do I need more ease? Where can I simplify rather than add? What would help me feel calmer at home? Even one small ritual for yourself – a quiet cup of tea, a reset walk, an earlier night – counts. 7. Remember: Routines Are Living Things The most sustainable routines evolve. They grow as your child grows, and they change as your family’s needs shift. Instead of asking, “Is this the perfect routine?”Try asking, “Is this helping us feel more settled?” If the answer is yes – you’re doing enough.  A new year doesn’t need a complete overhaul. Sometimes, the most powerful reset is simply slowing down, choosing calm, and letting routines support your family rather than run it. Here’s to a gentle start – and a year that unfolds with intention.